Kinky women in Birmingham

I’m looking to chat with a man and get to know. I feel communication let’s me known whether the vibe is there’s for something more whether physical(FWB) or something more down the line. Looking for intimate friendandalover. I like Hiking, Swimming, Yoga, Sports, reading, cooking, Travelling, Art, cooking, Gym Fitness, Bicycling, outdoor activities,camping...

I have uploaded vetting questions. If you are interested read them and answer them. Below is some information about me and I will absolutely answer the questions I posted as well. They are not from me (I borrowed them from MadamSatan on fetlife because they are excellent questions for vetting ❤️) I’m a middle (physically 48 🤣 but mentally closer to 9-12ish when I regress). I can be playful and silly/goofy and I often communicate via memes, music and writing. I will slowly add new writings and such again and rebuild. It will never be the same however and I know this. While I’m not new to the lifestyle I’m taking a new-ish approach so if you want to be added I’m returning to the basics and vetting (if I don’t already actually know you) is a REQUIREMENT. I’m protecting my peace and my sanity in doing it this way ❤. I seek a 24/7 TPE DDlg dynamic and no I don’t expect it to go 0-wedding bells BUT this is the end goal-I date for marriage not just a placeholder until better comes along. My friends on here have seen me endure some rough shit over the years but they’ve also seen me learn, grow and rise. I am 100% demisexual and sapiosexual-for those unfamiliar that means I have ZERO interest in the physical expression of BDSM if it lacks the mental and emotional connection FIRST. Aka if you’re just in it for sex you’re barking up the wrong tree. My Daddy becomes my entire universe (hence the slave label). I’m submissive by nature but I will only submit to one. I REQUIRE rules, ritual and consistency. If you’re not in a position to provide the structure that’s alright but you’re not going to be a good fit for me. I NEED this. The structure provides connection and consistency. I drive a semi longhaul so any relationship with me is going to be LDR/online to begin with and if things actually click I will consider hanging up the keys. What I am NOT: Your fuckdoll/toy to pick up when you’re bored/horny Do NOT use honorifics with me. Those are earned on both sides of the slash with the exception of me referring to an actual D type as Sir and that is out of respect-unless we already know each other and are on familiar terms at which point it’ll be how we’ve always referred to each other 🤭🤭🤭 Boundaries/hard limits: (Don’t cross these I will absolutely block you) Lie to me, ever FULL STOP I have zero patience or tolerance for liars Claim me unless you’re vetted and a dynamic has been established Try to get me to participate in hookup culture/scene play Casual/one and done-that’s a giant nope not gonna happen Use honorifics with me (unless we’re in a dynamic, obvs 🤣) or demand my instant submission-I will hurt your feelings and then block you Use silent treatment or any other form of coercive control/***. I will add as needed for more. As for hard limits for playtime: Lies to me. I don’t care if you lie to others but NEVER to me. I will instantly lose trust and confidence in you and every single bit of trust. No trust = nothing to continue on any level. Should go without saying but no minors! Actual incest of any kind! That’s a hard NO. *** play, scarification, breath play, *** or simulated drowning type play. I don’t judge those into it, but it’s not my kink. No emotional sadism! Sexual sadism is an affirmative full green light but emotional is 100% off limits! If you have questions, ask. What I seek: Actual connection, real and raw. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Protector/provider types that are able to calm my chaos gremlin brain and nervous system by providing safety-no I don’t care if you have a penny or millions in the bank. I love getting spoiled but my idea of being spoiled is time, attention and effort. I will 100% test your patience AND your stamina 😈 but only the one who earns the title Daddy gets that from me because that holds a special place in my heart and my mind. I’ll do a long list of dirty, sick twisted and depraved things, but only for Daddy. A little more about me since I’m feeling more comfortable with my new account: Born and raised in the south. I’m a true southern woman and I can dress out a buck in 15 minutes, bait my own hook-unless it’s stink bait 😂 Daddy can do that, love real camping ⛺ yes in a tent on the ground 😂, and I will absolutely holler “let’s go get stuck” to go mudding. I’m more comfortable hanging with the guys than I am other women mainly because I grew up in the country on a small farm and I don’t do the drama and chaos that many (not all) women come with nor do I partake in the gossip or fashion drama 🙄. I prefer ***s to most other humans. I value friendships as much as romantic relationships and I am the person they call when they need emotional support or a chaos gremlin to throw hands with them as backup for a fight. I know places to hide the pieces they’d never look. I work hard and I play hard. I love music, art, poetry and literature. Poe and Dickinson are my favorite poets and have been since childhood. I LOVE the theatre 🎭 and my dad has done Shakespearean theatre since before I was born! I love renaissance fairs, fairytales, and the mythical. I’m an eclectic pagan practitioner and I will never alter that because it’s who I am. I’m a “gray witch” which means I walk between the light and the shadows, each has its purpose. It boils down to I’m not seeking to harm, but I don’t take any shit either. As for critters I love horses, chickens-don’t EVER walk in the coop with flip flops because they WILL peck your toes off and they’re mean af, ducks, Pygmy goats, cows, iguanas, dogs, cats, mice, rats and snakes and ravens/crows are my favorite birds followed closely by owls, bats and African greys. Crows have been a favorite since childhood and they’re extremely intelligent creatures. I’m also a FT college student majoring in psychology currently on top of the 96 hour work week so if I don’t respond to a DM right away I likely haven’t seen it yet. I am also a gamer geek and will rock your shit with my half elf Druid Fizgignoduel on WoW. I also play tennis when I can although it’s been years so don’t get judgey if it takes me a hot minute to get back into it if we play 😂. Horseback riding is a favorite thing to do because riding in a wide open field at full gallop is freedom ❤. I should really go do that again soon ☺.

Sweet, a little bratty, and definitely submissive once you earn it 😉 I love someone who knows what they want, can take the lead, and still treat me with respect and care. If you can make me laugh and keep me on my toes, we’ll get along just fine.

total switch I prefer being dominated. I like *** more than *** but can definitely take my share. but if you can’t dominate me then trust me I will take control

Welcome, A lady who excels from consent and control. You may kneel, speak, beg, or plead. Follow my rules and only my rules or be dismissed. It’s my right to command and your privilege to be here. Only interested in good boys

Quirky chaos goblin with a PhD in making life hilariously un-boring! I’m funny, playfully weird, and obsessed with squeezing every drop of joy out of this ride. Bonus: I absolutely light up when I have someone who’s all-in on that adult alternative lifestyle… because vanilla is for ice cream, not our adventures. Let’s turn ‘ordinary’ into ‘oh my god, remember that time?!’ 😈"

In my free time, I'm either reading fantasy or thrillers, gaming (BG3, TS4), at the gym, or seeing friends. Going out looks like drinks, a walk, or live music. Looking to go on dates and see where things take us, whether it's good convo, kissing, or more. Open to it being short- or long-term. I'm interested in exploring my dom side, though I'll sub if the vibe is right. Only interested in women and nb people, no men.

Slowly but surely, I'm gathering my strength to write the best profile ever. As for now, just enjoy the nice background music...

Looking for consistent conversations, attention and to see where things lead. I want to be comfortable and vibe. I want to be submissive and have a dominant man. I'm down for knocking things off my bucket list too so don't be afraid of hitting me up 😊 Love taking pictures/videos during 🥰 No ons ✨Plus sized✨ ✨MILF✨ ✨Exploring✨ I enjoy the bar life, concerts, going out on fun adventures and cozying up with some books💕

twenty one :) sub-leaning switch, looking for all genders to play with. IRL only

I am a very laid-back girl with a high libido and a very curious person. I shame none and take account for everyone and their feelings. I am a complete submissive and little looking for a Dom/Daddy Dom/Soft Dom. I've had experience with a soft Dom, and they were amazing. I'm hoping to find my home with a Dom. I do hope to find a connection, but friends are welcome! If you are only looking for a good time or to collect pictures I do charge so inbox me if you lovely males are interested❤️😘. I am a nerd when it comes to anime and video games and cartoons. 29 year old divorced with one child who works.

Petite Asian hotwife looking for an experienced Bull to play with and cuck my sissy hubby. Open to play with couples or MFM No strings attached, safe play, D&D free, discreet Bi guys very welcome 😈

if youre 1k + miles away im not interested. if you send a heinously horny text to open i wont respond 98% of the time. I love roleplay kinks like petplay and ddlg. I love metal, Midwest emo ans punk music. I like skateboarding, tattooing and playing dnd.

Just looking for a real dom that is close that lives in Alabama . I am a rope bunny and a brat just looking to be tamed. PLEASE STOP DMING ME ASKING TO BE MY SUBMISSIVE.

petite, Type A executive by day who is wildly curious about what might happen if an incredibly fit, hot, well spoken man could take over and push limits. I am extremely selective- only tall, lean, muscular (with defined abs) and zero body hair from the neck down need apply.

HERE FOR THE LADIES ONLY!!! Married, seeking serious loving playful fun emotionally safe girlfriend for myself! No BBW, i like to share clothes with my girlfriend 🥰 Im silly yet serious, cater to and spoil my girl! love to cook, soak in the clawfoot tub/hot tub, karaoke, drag shows, love music, dancing, giving/receiving massages, & much more! have 4 dogs 2 cats so pet lover a must! dream night in w my girl--- i run her a hot bath w/salts & bombs, bring her an adult beverage to enjoy, wash her back and get her all relaxed before taking her to bed and giving her an hour long massage that turns into a passionate kink-fest, afterwards I cook her an amazing meal and we binge watch our fave show in bed! hmu FB- amber howse kittygrrlspicy & kittygrrl if you wanna be a fan ;)

I'm Elixondria and been known to be a Queen of Spades but im very adventurous open minded to I'm a switch usually Dominant with my female and submissive with my male but I can be both I'm a fun easy going chic I enjoy pleasing others and to being pleased I love the thought of exciting others with my words movement and actions it turns me on to know I'm turning you on

This isn't about your selfish gratification. This is about true submission. It's more than just saying "yes, Mistress." It's more than compliance for a reward. The reward is my presence. Your pleasure is in truly pleasing me. My love language is acts of service. Therefore, I expect to be served well. You will obey and submit in every way I see fit.

🌸 Soft Hands, Sharp Tongue 🌸 Mommy is sweet… until she isn’t. I’m a nurturing, emotional sadist with a warm voice, soft touch, and a twisted love for watching pretty things unravel under praise and pressure. I’ll stroke your hair while I quietly dismantle your ego — not with screams or ***, but with whispered truths that make your cheeks burn and your knees buckle. You’ll feel safe with me. Safe enough to cry. Safe enough to admit you like being broken down and rebuilt, humiliated just enough to feel raw, exposed, and mine. I’m not interested in brat-tamers or cold power trips. I want your vulnerability — the tears behind your smile, the insecurity behind your obedience, the trembling in your “yes, Mommy.” I get off on knowing exactly how to hold you while I hurt you, and how to hurt you in ways that make you feel held. Ideal sub? A soft girl, maybe a little shy, eager to please, and deeply responsive to gentle control and degrading affection. You should melt under praise and squirm under teasing. Mommy likes her toys needy, obedient, and pretty when they cry. Let’s play in the space between comfort and ***. I’ll ruin you kindly.

I am a coward, please message me first if you’re interested in me Not sure what I’m here for, open to a long term relationship. Open to being either a Dominant or a Submissive. Now on FetishFinder: https://app.fetishfinder.com/userProfile/MadameJWares Booktok girlie and nerd or many fandoms.

I'm a pansexual weirdo mashup of hippie, dork, angry intersectional feminist with a splash of punk. Sometimes I'm a homebody, and other times you'll find me wandering in the woods, or at a music/art event. I'm just out here living the manic pixie dream girl life. I'm not your forever, I'm more like that silly/spontaneous friend you sleep with from time to time. cis/het/yt neuro-typical men can keep on moving, I'm not here for you. I'm a Free Palestine! FDT, fuck ice! BLM, ACAB, Support trans kids and adults, no human is illegal, my body my choice, emphatic consent is sexy, billionaires shouldn't be allowed to exist.

if there’s something you want to know just ask.. we are a couple looking for a equal ( woman) to spend this crazy life with… and or just looking to have some fun women and couples only NO SINGLE MEN!!!!

horny girl looking to chat and share pics with

looking for a soft daddy dom who is affectionate and affirming but not afraid to spank that ass;) i’m pretty kinky and open minded so hopefully we’re alike there ❌guys who think they can just be my “ daddy” overnight. it requires trust with that said NO FWBS if you’re looking for no commitment look the other way 🙌🏽

I’m looking to chat with a man and get to know. I feel communication let’s me known whether the vibe is there’s for something more whether physical(FWB) or something more down the line. Looking for intimate friendandalover. I like Hiking, Swimming, Yoga, Sports, reading, cooking, Travelling, Art, cooking, Gym Fitness, Bicycling, outdoor activities,camping...

I have uploaded vetting questions. If you are interested read them and answer them. Below is some information about me and I will absolutely answer the questions I posted as well. They are not from me (I borrowed them from MadamSatan on fetlife because they are excellent questions for vetting ❤️) I’m a middle (physically 48 🤣 but mentally closer to 9-12ish when I regress). I can be playful and silly/goofy and I often communicate via memes, music and writing. I will slowly add new writings and such again and rebuild. It will never be the same however and I know this. While I’m not new to the lifestyle I’m taking a new-ish approach so if you want to be added I’m returning to the basics and vetting (if I don’t already actually know you) is a REQUIREMENT. I’m protecting my peace and my sanity in doing it this way ❤. I seek a 24/7 TPE DDlg dynamic and no I don’t expect it to go 0-wedding bells BUT this is the end goal-I date for marriage not just a placeholder until better comes along. My friends on here have seen me endure some rough shit over the years but they’ve also seen me learn, grow and rise. I am 100% demisexual and sapiosexual-for those unfamiliar that means I have ZERO interest in the physical expression of BDSM if it lacks the mental and emotional connection FIRST. Aka if you’re just in it for sex you’re barking up the wrong tree. My Daddy becomes my entire universe (hence the slave label). I’m submissive by nature but I will only submit to one. I REQUIRE rules, ritual and consistency. If you’re not in a position to provide the structure that’s alright but you’re not going to be a good fit for me. I NEED this. The structure provides connection and consistency. I drive a semi longhaul so any relationship with me is going to be LDR/online to begin with and if things actually click I will consider hanging up the keys. What I am NOT: Your fuckdoll/toy to pick up when you’re bored/horny Do NOT use honorifics with me. Those are earned on both sides of the slash with the exception of me referring to an actual D type as Sir and that is out of respect-unless we already know each other and are on familiar terms at which point it’ll be how we’ve always referred to each other 🤭🤭🤭 Boundaries/hard limits: (Don’t cross these I will absolutely block you) Lie to me, ever FULL STOP I have zero patience or tolerance for liars Claim me unless you’re vetted and a dynamic has been established Try to get me to participate in hookup culture/scene play Casual/one and done-that’s a giant nope not gonna happen Use honorifics with me (unless we’re in a dynamic, obvs 🤣) or demand my instant submission-I will hurt your feelings and then block you Use silent treatment or any other form of coercive control/***. I will add as needed for more. As for hard limits for playtime: Lies to me. I don’t care if you lie to others but NEVER to me. I will instantly lose trust and confidence in you and every single bit of trust. No trust = nothing to continue on any level. Should go without saying but no minors! Actual incest of any kind! That’s a hard NO. *** play, scarification, breath play, *** or simulated drowning type play. I don’t judge those into it, but it’s not my kink. No emotional sadism! Sexual sadism is an affirmative full green light but emotional is 100% off limits! If you have questions, ask. What I seek: Actual connection, real and raw. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Protector/provider types that are able to calm my chaos gremlin brain and nervous system by providing safety-no I don’t care if you have a penny or millions in the bank. I love getting spoiled but my idea of being spoiled is time, attention and effort. I will 100% test your patience AND your stamina 😈 but only the one who earns the title Daddy gets that from me because that holds a special place in my heart and my mind. I’ll do a long list of dirty, sick twisted and depraved things, but only for Daddy. A little more about me since I’m feeling more comfortable with my new account: Born and raised in the south. I’m a true southern woman and I can dress out a buck in 15 minutes, bait my own hook-unless it’s stink bait 😂 Daddy can do that, love real camping ⛺ yes in a tent on the ground 😂, and I will absolutely holler “let’s go get stuck” to go mudding. I’m more comfortable hanging with the guys than I am other women mainly because I grew up in the country on a small farm and I don’t do the drama and chaos that many (not all) women come with nor do I partake in the gossip or fashion drama 🙄. I prefer ***s to most other humans. I value friendships as much as romantic relationships and I am the person they call when they need emotional support or a chaos gremlin to throw hands with them as backup for a fight. I know places to hide the pieces they’d never look. I work hard and I play hard. I love music, art, poetry and literature. Poe and Dickinson are my favorite poets and have been since childhood. I LOVE the theatre 🎭 and my dad has done Shakespearean theatre since before I was born! I love renaissance fairs, fairytales, and the mythical. I’m an eclectic pagan practitioner and I will never alter that because it’s who I am. I’m a “gray witch” which means I walk between the light and the shadows, each has its purpose. It boils down to I’m not seeking to harm, but I don’t take any shit either. As for critters I love horses, chickens-don’t EVER walk in the coop with flip flops because they WILL peck your toes off and they’re mean af, ducks, Pygmy goats, cows, iguanas, dogs, cats, mice, rats and snakes and ravens/crows are my favorite birds followed closely by owls, bats and African greys. Crows have been a favorite since childhood and they’re extremely intelligent creatures. I’m also a FT college student majoring in psychology currently on top of the 96 hour work week so if I don’t respond to a DM right away I likely haven’t seen it yet. I am also a gamer geek and will rock your shit with my half elf Druid Fizgignoduel on WoW. I also play tennis when I can although it’s been years so don’t get judgey if it takes me a hot minute to get back into it if we play 😂. Horseback riding is a favorite thing to do because riding in a wide open field at full gallop is freedom ❤. I should really go do that again soon ☺.

In my free time, I'm either reading fantasy or thrillers, gaming (BG3, TS4), at the gym, or seeing friends. Going out looks like drinks, a walk, or live music. Looking to go on dates and see where things take us, whether it's good convo, kissing, or more. Open to it being short- or long-term. I'm interested in exploring my dom side, though I'll sub if the vibe is right. Only interested in women and nb people, no men.

Just ask and I'll answer. I don't feel like writing everything here.

Quirky chaos goblin with a PhD in making life hilariously un-boring! I’m funny, playfully weird, and obsessed with squeezing every drop of joy out of this ride. Bonus: I absolutely light up when I have someone who’s all-in on that adult alternative lifestyle… because vanilla is for ice cream, not our adventures. Let’s turn ‘ordinary’ into ‘oh my god, remember that time?!’ 😈"

Sweet, a little bratty, and definitely submissive once you earn it 😉 I love someone who knows what they want, can take the lead, and still treat me with respect and care. If you can make me laugh and keep me on my toes, we’ll get along just fine.

I'm a little shy, definitely a submissive with a praise kink. Other than that, I'm still exploring and learning about myself. New to this community and not sure exactly how far I want to go with it so be ready to be patient. Try not to come on too strong. ☺️

I'm Elixondria and been known to be a Queen of Spades but im very adventurous open minded to I'm a switch usually Dominant with my female and submissive with my male but I can be both I'm a fun easy going chic I enjoy pleasing others and to being pleased I love the thought of exciting others with my words movement and actions it turns me on to know I'm turning you on

female couple looking for men or couples to play with on a regular basis. 420 friendly. preference is for BIPOC persons We cannot host. You must be able to host. $$ we do not play solo $$ I’m going to back to FetLife.com you can find me under the same user name. this cost too much $

Petite Asian hotwife looking for an experienced Bull to play with and cuck my sissy hubby. Open to play with couples or MFM No strings attached, safe play, D&D free, discreet Bi guys very welcome 😈

if there’s something you want to know just ask.. we are a couple looking for a equal ( woman) to spend this crazy life with… and or just looking to have some fun women and couples only NO SINGLE MEN!!!!

HERE FOR THE LADIES ONLY!!! Married, seeking serious loving playful fun emotionally safe girlfriend for myself! No BBW, i like to share clothes with my girlfriend 🥰 Im silly yet serious, cater to and spoil my girl! love to cook, soak in the clawfoot tub/hot tub, karaoke, drag shows, love music, dancing, giving/receiving massages, & much more! have 4 dogs 2 cats so pet lover a must! dream night in w my girl--- i run her a hot bath w/salts & bombs, bring her an adult beverage to enjoy, wash her back and get her all relaxed before taking her to bed and giving her an hour long massage that turns into a passionate kink-fest, afterwards I cook her an amazing meal and we binge watch our fave show in bed! hmu FB- amber howse kittygrrlspicy & kittygrrl if you wanna be a fan ;)

Someone who is open minded and curious. I love laughs, safety and good times. Just looking to see what’s out here

Hello I'm looking for a friend to chat with and maybe take it to the next level. I am a hard worker that loves to work. Just hope I can find someone to match my energy.

Welcome, A lady who excels from consent and control. You may kneel, speak, beg, or plead. Follow my rules and only my rules or be dismissed. It’s my right to command and your privilege to be here. Only interested in good boys

total switch I prefer being dominated. I like *** more than *** but can definitely take my share. but if you can’t dominate me then trust me I will take control

Looking for consistent conversations, attention and to see where things lead. I want to be comfortable and vibe. I want to be submissive and have a dominant man. I'm down for knocking things off my bucket list too so don't be afraid of hitting me up 😊 Love taking pictures/videos during 🥰 No ons ✨Plus sized✨ ✨MILF✨ ✨Exploring✨ I enjoy the bar life, concerts, going out on fun adventures and cozying up with some books💕

gonna keep it simple- I’m new to this. Happily married! looking for friend first and foremost, someone who is comfortable spending time with both me and my husband. we’re homebodies to like spending time together. I personally and looking for someone to explore my curious side with. someone who can talk me through the space. Match with me. I’m/ we’re a Vibe! Don’t really want to pay for the app- message me if you’d like ☺️ 205-202-9576 Mia: 23 ♑️ -Accountant - 420 friendly 🍃 -Loves a good 📖 - Puzzles! 🧩 - Funny & Intelligent -Quality Time & Words of affirmation Miakemp.91 👻 Aaron: 35 ♓️ - Chef 👨🏾‍🍳 - Harry Potter Nerd - Tatted - 🍨 🍦Junkyy - Bowling 🎳 - 🌍 Traveled -Phsyical Touch & Quality Time

This isn't about your selfish gratification. This is about true submission. It's more than just saying "yes, Mistress." It's more than compliance for a reward. The reward is my presence. Your pleasure is in truly pleasing me. My love language is acts of service. Therefore, I expect to be served well. You will obey and submit in every way I see fit.

Hi 👋 im looking for a experienced dom that is more of a soft Dom but can put me in my place when needed. I am looking to relieve some stress and give up some control. Im a little/Brat that is motivated by sweets, haha.

I’m Clover! 23 years old and Asexual. I have a preference for they/them pronouns but she/her is fine. I am fat and don’t intend to lose weight I’m really here to explore asexual kink, as I definitely have some fantasies I want to explore within myself.

Looking for men who understand the art of submission. I’m a confident, dominant woman with a taste for pegging, watersports, and all things female-led power. I also appreciate intellect... Give me a good book, great food, and a perfectly crafted drink, and I’m in my element. If you think you can please a woman who knows exactly what she wants, send me a message. Let’s start with food and drinks, feel the chemistry... and if you behave well, I might decide just how far our dynamic goes

I am a coward, please message me first if you’re interested in me Not sure what I’m here for, open to a long term relationship. Open to being either a Dominant or a Submissive. Now on FetishFinder: https://app.fetishfinder.com/userProfile/MadameJWares Booktok girlie and nerd or many fandoms.

horny girl looking to chat and share pics with